tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post8470474352412439817..comments2023-10-21T04:30:13.882-05:00Comments on My Journey to Myles and Beyond to Surrogacy: Trying to take my life back from IFNikihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18301986722909738137noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-48907178308854412652009-01-14T06:23:00.000-06:002009-01-14T06:23:00.000-06:00Ah, the weight rollercoaster. Welcome to my club!I...Ah, the weight rollercoaster. Welcome to my club!<BR/><BR/>I haven't had your experiences with infertility, and I can only imagine how frustrating it must be. You're awesome for standing up to it.<BR/><BR/>Thinking about you as the anniversaries start to pile up.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09211028670642739808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-44596068152120204892009-01-13T18:19:00.000-06:002009-01-13T18:19:00.000-06:00My IRL BF who lives far away pointed out after I w...My IRL BF who lives far away pointed out after I was devastated when I discovered that I couldn't become pregnant that I am more then my reproductive organs and I am more, and ever sense she told me that back in May I've been slowly getting back to myself and it's worth it, it feels good, and I'm like you, often to feel good I gotta work out (I too am not fat but, I'm not the size 4 I was) and I'm still not back there yet after almost a year of working out but, I'm down to a six.<BR/>Anyhow, I know what your talking about and I'm glad that your moving in the right direction.Nadinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08219960725085412879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-54619789353722022872009-01-13T16:43:00.000-06:002009-01-13T16:43:00.000-06:00I know completely what you mean! I let it control ...I know completely what you mean! I let it control my life to but what a great beginning to taking back life and living in the now<BR/><BR/>www.wondrafulbaby.blogspot.comJust Believinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02209860792709070040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-86316066727591869062009-01-13T07:03:00.000-06:002009-01-13T07:03:00.000-06:00I know how impossible it is to just say oh well an...I know how impossible it is to just say oh well and plan things anyway when you are about to start a cycle, in the middle of a cycle, etc, not knowing if this one will be it or if you'll need to do another cycle. I felt like I had become a prisoner to it all. I'm just wishing for K to have a BFP very soon so this part can end and you can look forward to planning all kinds of good things.<BR/>And I think it's great that your doc is understanding and sensitive to what you are dealing with and I would think that PTSD would make a lot of sense. I hope you are able to get your sleep back soon.Sandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04353563932181143309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-47245419926831133852009-01-12T23:50:00.000-06:002009-01-12T23:50:00.000-06:00It's so hard, one of my friends kind of mentioned ...It's so hard, one of my friends kind of mentioned that she wished I could just get a break from it all (infertility treatments, recurrent loss) ... and it kind of made me sad and kind of hurt me. Don't you think I'd LIKE to do that? So I feel for you having to plan your spring break around ER. I'm hoping ET in a few short weeks proves that you can head off on vacation.Polly Gamwichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09338430066217324064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-14547261868379655652009-01-12T22:53:00.000-06:002009-01-12T22:53:00.000-06:00As it so happens, I saw a counsellor who specializ...As it so happens, I saw a counsellor who specialized in PTSD after I lost Gabe. Which was great, because when I talked about what happened, she suggested that most people who go through what we went through would have PTSD. It's a train wreck that takes over your life. <BR/><BR/>I hope the meds help. I remember that she said it was also really important to get some coping mechanisms too, since the meds are only a stop gap. Maybe your doctor could suggest someone?Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-15476153727092688562009-01-12T22:14:00.000-06:002009-01-12T22:14:00.000-06:00I hear you. I feel like my "normal" friends have ...I hear you. I feel like my "normal" friends have slipped away - two came over tonight to play on my Wii with me.<BR/><BR/>I am trying to sheds some pounds too...sigh. <BR/><BR/>I am glad that you are taking charge of your sleep and well being - that shows great strength. I really hope a bfp interferes with your travel plans!Meinsideouthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10001196898695554746noreply@blogger.com