tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post6949655831438504459..comments2023-10-21T04:30:13.882-05:00Comments on My Journey to Myles and Beyond to Surrogacy: The Imperfect Science of MedicineNikihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18301986722909738137noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-70687154469815690252009-04-04T01:01:00.000-05:002009-04-04T01:01:00.000-05:00Science leaves a lot to be desired. We will never...Science leaves a lot to be desired. We will never have all the answers and sometimes it is a stab in the dark. One in which we have to take in order to achieve our goal. <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you....Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01182799970023518351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-54740980042951905252009-04-03T21:54:00.000-05:002009-04-03T21:54:00.000-05:00It really is just so hard to not know why things h...It really is just so hard to not know why things happen. All we can do is make the best decision we can with the information we have in front of us. I'm sorry this isn't easier......Lost in Spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07027117135940864685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-38358736884169792312009-04-03T13:30:00.000-05:002009-04-03T13:30:00.000-05:00This is so hard and frustrating. I hope that the ...This is so hard and frustrating. I hope that the lab work comes back from Ks D & C and gives a clue as to what is going on. Thinking of you!<BR/>KrisKrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09916441645018957933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-57309975936318446342009-04-03T13:12:00.000-05:002009-04-03T13:12:00.000-05:00I also find it hard to believe that it's a genetic...I also find it hard to believe that it's a genetic issue (would your embryos look so good and get to blast if it was all done to chromosomes and not a faulty uterus?). I don't know, but, I also don't not know and I just feel that more trying is the best thing to do, try again a fresh cycle with your emryos and a surrogate (this is my plan obviously) and if then there continues to be issues, you will know more, otherwise, you just won't know. (or again this is how I'm approaching everything).Nadinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08219960725085412879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-7451613000577118932009-04-03T11:48:00.000-05:002009-04-03T11:48:00.000-05:00I read that book! I thought is was good, too.As fo...I read that book! I thought is was good, too.<BR/><BR/>As for the imperfect nature of modern medicine: it is so true. The body is so complicated that it is impossible to know exactly what to expect with any treatment, IF related or not. It's a best guess kind of business. <BR/><BR/>Wishing you all the best, as always :-)Irish Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13222992447645337845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-50303205199744179402009-04-03T11:04:00.000-05:002009-04-03T11:04:00.000-05:00Your posts are so touching. I check my computer ev...Your posts are so touching. I check my computer everyday for a new one. I pray for you guys everynight, and yes there is alot to know/learn on the science side of things but sometimes I just have to tell myself (and believe) that everything is really in Gods hand. I believe that God wants you to have another baby (Miles deserves a brother or sister) Sometimes the road to success is filled with heart ache. I think that with out the heart ache we wouldn't enjoy the moments of perfection. (And you did have moments of perfection with miles and you will get more with baby# 2)Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06533416180499429764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-48943721003693630202009-04-03T10:44:00.000-05:002009-04-03T10:44:00.000-05:00I know. Its so frustrating, but yet a very import...I know. Its so frustrating, but yet a very important thing to be reminded of from time to time. I was sooooo mad at our MFM because it wouldn't give us stats - numbers - for our rate of recurrence. At the end of the day, though - does it really matter? No, not really. <BR/><BR/>Particularly when it comes to getting pregnant and staying pregnant, they really don't know much at all!! Not only is medicine itself an imperfect science, but its not like they can run "tests" on pregnant women. <BR/><BR/>Anyway, I'm sorry that you feel left with more questions than answers, but I'm proud of you for writing this post and for reminding yourself that sometimes there just are no answers.Bluebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581noreply@blogger.com