tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post3816078957419060740..comments2023-10-21T04:30:13.882-05:00Comments on My Journey to Myles and Beyond to Surrogacy: One of those daysNikihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18301986722909738137noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-73392952476786252162008-09-21T16:32:00.000-05:002008-09-21T16:32:00.000-05:00Boy do I know this feeling. Why is it that no one ...Boy do I know this feeling. Why is it that no one else blames us but we blame ourselves? You think "I'm the Mom, my sole job is to protect them." But there definitely was nothing you could do, same as me. It's such a heavy burden on our hearts. Not only to lose your baby but to feel responsible too. Great big hugs to you.Kellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04461692800374311352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-50204879703335708202008-09-11T15:50:00.000-05:002008-09-11T15:50:00.000-05:00I am so sorry for you. I pray peace and healing o...I am so sorry for you. I pray peace and healing over you.kjames106https://www.blogger.com/profile/01460953975958190670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-71825882973366952852008-09-09T20:49:00.000-05:002008-09-09T20:49:00.000-05:00I know exactly how you feel. My husband is a huge...I know exactly how you feel. My husband is a huge Bears fan and I had the same thoughts Sunday. <BR/><BR/>Sending you healing vibes. And thinking of you and Myles.<BR/><BR/>((((HUGS))))Travelwahinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02506157855335323827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-13889023803740400752008-09-09T16:36:00.000-05:002008-09-09T16:36:00.000-05:00my heart breaks for you hun. My prayer for you wil...my heart breaks for you hun. My prayer for you will be for peace.~Holliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02604641853111796521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-34854006081540355632008-09-09T16:04:00.000-05:002008-09-09T16:04:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry sweetie. We all have those days - the...I'm so sorry sweetie. We all have those days - they seem like they are happening to a lot of us lately. I blame myself often too - blame my body for not being able to do what so many others can. When we even hear about Jon and Kate Plus 8 I feel so ashamed that she could carry 6 babies and I couldn't even carry 2. But my husband tells me it wasn't my fault, and I try hard to believe him - and so I'd like to pass that to you. There was nothing you could do - you were the best mother to Myles he could have ever had.Bustedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09926427330808873296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-10001490973327027922008-09-09T06:54:00.000-05:002008-09-09T06:54:00.000-05:00so so sorry. Sending you hugs and prayers. And the...so so sorry. Sending you hugs and prayers. And the wish that you stop blaming yourself. Grief is enough of an emotion to deal with without adding guilt to the equation. It's not your fault!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-7879318493439172022008-09-08T14:28:00.000-05:002008-09-08T14:28:00.000-05:00I doubt that anything I could say would help at al...I doubt that anything I could say would help at all, but know that if I could I would wrap my arms around you. I hope tomorrow is easier...Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14723776217931250359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-67018220569462737412008-09-08T12:10:00.000-05:002008-09-08T12:10:00.000-05:00All I can do is send (((HUGS)))...you know I wish ...All I can do is send (((HUGS)))...you know I wish with all my heart you still had Myles with you. Josh doesn't resent you because YOU aren't responsible for Myles' death. Josh loves you, Myles loves you, and I love you. Wish I could be there to help you through this...<BR/>Mourning Myles and everything you've lost with you from here...Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18028385789654418050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-28755835433625190262008-09-08T09:16:00.000-05:002008-09-08T09:16:00.000-05:00Niki, I am so sorry. (((HUGS))) I wish I could jus...Niki, <BR/><BR/>I am so sorry. (((HUGS))) I wish I could just come and cry with you.Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12040669478093163255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-61475659798802693272008-09-08T07:32:00.000-05:002008-09-08T07:32:00.000-05:00Yeah, I'm there with you too.Gosh, it sucks, doesn...Yeah, I'm there with you too.<BR/><BR/>Gosh, it sucks, doesn't it.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you and Myles.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09211028670642739808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-61597234433908490952008-09-07T23:40:00.000-05:002008-09-07T23:40:00.000-05:00It seems several of us are having hard days today....It seems several of us are having hard days today. I'm there with you. It sucks. I hate watching my husband suffer in sadness, wondering what he's missing right now. Cuts to the core.Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16003334714597731355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4326892427706733269.post-48273141125568075212008-09-07T22:24:00.000-05:002008-09-07T22:24:00.000-05:00oh, hun. I'm sorry. I have those days. Days like t...oh, hun. I'm sorry. I have those days. Days like today when I look around at all the children in church and think, I miss my son. <BR/><BR/>((((hugs))))<BR/><BR/>Tomorrow is another day.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.com